I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversations

I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversationsby: Jen HardyPublished on: 02/13/2026

I used to think I was too much. Too intense. Too deep. Human Design didn’t excuse it , it explained it. Here’s what being a Projector taught me about invitations, relationships, and belonging.

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I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversations

Safety Changes Everything About Who We Become

Safety Changes Everything About Who We Becomeby: Jen HardyPublished on: 02/10/2026

A reflection after hosting our quarterly NLP community call on identity, survival patterns, and the quiet space between surviving, living, and thriving.

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Safety Changes Everything About Who We Become

You Won’t Believe How Often You’re Lying Out of Fear (I Caught Myself Today)

You Won’t Believe How Often You’re Lying Out of Fear (I Caught Myself Today)by: Irina AlexanderPublished on: 12/02/2025

A story‑driven reflection on how even the tiniest lies we tell ourselves and others are often fear in disguise — with a biblical command, neuroscience insight, and actionable steps for leaders, creators, and truth‑seekers.

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You Won’t Believe How Often You’re Lying Out of Fear (I Caught Myself Today)

I Spent 20 Years Ignoring an Achievement That Changed My Life

I Spent 20 Years Ignoring an Achievement That Changed My Lifeby: Jen HardyPublished on: 11/21/2025

For two decades, I kept my college diploma shoved in a box because I didn’t think it mattered. This is the story of what happened the day I finally let myself feel proud — and why so many of us bury the very things we’ve fought to earn.

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I Spent 20 Years Ignoring an Achievement That Changed My Life