I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversations

I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversationsby: Jen HardyPublished on: 02/13/2026

I used to think I was too much. Too intense. Too deep. Human Design didn’t excuse it , it explained it. Here’s what being a Projector taught me about invitations, relationships, and belonging.

Life by Choice LivingPersonal Story & Integration
I Don’t Do Surface-Level Conversations

Safety Changes Everything About Who We Become

Safety Changes Everything About Who We Becomeby: Jen HardyPublished on: 02/10/2026

A reflection after hosting our quarterly NLP community call on identity, survival patterns, and the quiet space between surviving, living, and thriving.

Healing & Human PotentialLife by Choice Living
Safety Changes Everything About Who We Become

The Lesson I Learned From My Temper Tantrum at Our Retreat

The Lesson I Learned From My Temper Tantrum at Our Retreatby: Jen HardyPublished on: 02/03/2026

A personal reflection on what happens inside even the most capable leaders when intent is misread, effort feels erased, and misunderstanding threatens belonging.

Emotional Resilience & Nervous System MasteryLeadership & CommunicationRelationships, Love & Boundaries
The Lesson I Learned From My Temper Tantrum at Our Retreat

They Don’t Need to Toughen Up. They Need to Understand Themselves.

They Don’t Need to Toughen Up.  They Need to Understand Themselves.by: Jen HardyPublished on: 01/20/2026

A team of high school girls didn’t become “mentally tougher.” They learned nervous system awareness, communication, values, and belonging — and it changed everything.

Emotional Resilience & Nervous System MasteryLeadership & Communication
They Don’t Need to Toughen Up.  They Need to Understand Themselves.